Buckle up though - I anticipate this is gonna send your ex into overdrive. Don't let her push your buttons.
I had that same thought. XW doesn't like S spending time with GF. XW is likely to react to this.
Originally Posted by Wolfman
the one thing that really bothers me is exchanging my s at the police station. So unnecessary for him to go through that.
I'm puzzling over this. I have no negative feelings about police stations, so this wouldn't be any more a big deal to me than doing exchanges at McDonalds. I'd ensure the same officer is doing the exchange, help my son get to know them, maybe get a tour of the station. If it's an "ordeal" (definition: a painful or horrific experience), why does going to a police station feel that way to him? Is it your own feelings about going to the police station that are rubbing off on him?