No extremists here. She was in and out of the picture for 8 months, you have been completely a bd fully attached for 8 months. You never stopped, And took some time for yourself in a state of not being attached to her. There is nothing extreme about what I’m saying. You have 2 kids who need you to focus on them and your own healing because you are still manipulative just like she is and still very attached.
You’ll do what you want, but it 10/10 times it hasn’t worked for anyone in these boards, and you better hope you don’t end up with another baby on board like wolfman did.