I was alone for 8 months before I even went on a date ginger. But I know there are extremists here that feel i need to be single for years, and date multiple women casually to "find out what i want" but im 36, I know what I want and dont want.
I was not looking for this girl, I did not go on dating apps, bars, clubs, anything. I did go out with girls a couple times from work, who shot thier shots at me but I wasn't feeling it. Was'nt ready and they had a messy kinda life, or were just wild looking for a good time on my dime. Believe it or not, I am not a moron, just was an NGS doormat for the ex for far too long. This is not some game to get her back.
The worst mistake I could ever make is taking her back... I came to terms with that well before I even entertained the idea of even having dinner with another woman. I want to be happy with someone dependable and loyal. And that is not WW. But of course I read and regard all opinons. I just wanted to point out that I didnt go out looking for a replacement or a woman to mess with like 90% of the modern world does. I took my time and made peace with this all first. And again she sort of fell into my life as friends just chatting. Never intended anything more.
Last edited by Steve_; 05/26/2107:08 PM.
T:11 M:10 K: D5, S7 BD: 9/1/20 WW continues to break up and recon with OM. I paid last fees and pushed the D 5/3/2021 Default Dissolution granted 8/5/21. Glad my D was not busted.
