STBXH wanted to discuss getting the puppy neutered. He has an appt on Tuesday for wellness exam and I offered he could leave the dog and I could do surgery on Thurs and he could pick up on Friday... He seemed flustered and I just said it could be done another time but to let me know.
That turned into asking me to pet sit the second week in June. He was like you remember I was going out of town??? Uhm.. your schedule is not my concern. I stated I could watch the dog and at the same time do his wellness and his surgery so by the time he is picked up he is all recovered.
YIKES, why do I do him favors??? I'm more focused on the dog... yet STBXH benefits greatly. I am now yet doing him another favor so he can go on vaca with OW. ((facepalm))
That turned into that he has paid off the timeshare and I need to move the HOA fees to my account... that was what was agreed upon so said no problems. Business matter handled.
Told him that the decree paperwork covers all we have already agreed upon. I told him I would not sign it as it goes against my values ((STBXH believes that only he is required to sign and if I don't sign it will go through in one year by default)). He asked what value? I stated I don't believe in D, but I agree to the financial settlement... his only response was he has not seen paperwork yet. I confirmed I would email today.
I was emotional neutral the entire time. I didn't whine or beg but simply stated my beliefs.
Sadly, I know the judge will not accept the decree without my signature... I will have to totally get drunk one night to sign it.
