Hey Wolfman, yeah, been a couple of weeks! I hope you are holding up okay and finding ways to improve your visits with your son as he's still willing to visit. Looking forward to your next update.
Thank you too for checking in with me!!
So last week my son was born. He was 8lbs 5oz. Truly a beautiful baby boy. I am so blessed with him. I can’t tell you the joy I feel seeing and holding him. My gf was in labor for 22 hours (that’s with her being induced) only to have a c section. She handled it like a trooper. I am so proud of her. While she was in labor and dire pain, she would ask me how I was doing. I said are you kidding me you and the baby are the focus. I tried to joke with her, that I had the easy part. Lol I had my s this past weekend and was a little nervous how he would do. When I picked him up I told him he was a big brother and we needed to celebrate him being a big brother. So I asked him if he wanted a special drink, from DD or 7-11 and a special snack. That made him excited. He wanted a slurpee and sunflower seeds. So I picked it up for him. When he got to my house the baby was sleeping and he did t seem to interested in seeing him. But I expected that, it must be weird for him. But little by little he warmed up to him and when I was holding the baby he came over to see him. He would talk to him and rub his arm. It made me so happy. The baby would just stare at him and I would say you are a big brother and he loves you, look how he is staring at you! Then as the day went on he wanted to see the baby more and would ask for him. The next day I asked my s if he would help me build one of those electric rocking swing. He said sure, it was awesome because he took over and wanted to build the whole thing. I was so proud of him. He was so happy to see his brother in it then. Very happy daddy!!! I am noticing with gf that her hormones are messing with her a little. It’s to be expected. She is just very emotional just telling me how much she loves me, how happy she is, then just cries at how happy she is. Overall it’s been great. Still the one thing that really bothers me is exchanging my s at the police station. So unnecessary for him to go through that. I wish I could just keep him with us. He seems very happy at my home!! That where I am at right now.
M:42 XW:41 T:19 M: 15 D:13 S:10 BD: 8/10/18 Moved out: 8/18 Moved in: 9/18/18 Moved out: 4/22/19 D papers signed 11/4/19 D final 3/18/20