Ace_32,

Originally Posted by Ace_32
probably needed someone to snap me out of my pity party.

I used the exact same term for myself this past weekend. You're in good company. Hang in there.

Originally Posted by LH19
Originally Posted by Ace_32
True, i know she has screwed me around more than once and i should just be grateful this happened and walk away.

You have no idea how she saved you some major stress in your middle age by possibly tearing apart your family.

LH - You mean better it happened now than 5-10 years from now?

Me:39 Ex-W:37
M:7 T: 9
S:6 D:3
BD/IHS/Confirm EA/PA: Feb '20
OM1 affair ends: May '20
W/OM2 & moves out: June-July '20
W files for D: Jul20
OM2 confirmed: 9/2020
Divorced: May '21