Thank you DnJ, but it is very difficult to let him give the feeling that he is taking the lead since the only thing he has done is...nothing. He simply wants to live his life and wants me to be here when he comes over to be his maid.
I did something that would normally be discouraged by DB, but I honestly couldn't resist. I had to get it out of my system...
H received an email yesterday from the real estate agency for the sale of the house, I got a response from him today . Very rude language about how I "handled it", really meant to bring me down completely. Believe me, I was immediately blown away.
After a few hours of careful thought, I decided to send a response. Does this make sense to an MLC’er, no, but it makes sense to me. I’m so fed up with the way he threats me.
I have remained friendly and understanding at all times but have provided him with a firm answer.
My reaction:
I haven't handled anything yet. Is a proposal that can still be changed, feel free to give your input.
You have indicated that you wanted a divorce, I do not support this myself and have never supported this, but I have respected and accepted your choice. The logical consequence is that decisions have to be made that are not really great fun.
You wished to purchase. Unfortunately, this is not possible as the loan is difficult to obtain.
The only option that's left is to sell the house.
"Then some details about the sale and the contents that I cannot mention here."
Feel free to call or email me, if you wish to amend some things about the agency's proposal or if you have another proposal. If not, we will continue with the attached and I will send the signed version to you and you can also sign.
Again, I don't want a fight or a conflict, and I certainly don't want to get the most out of it, you know me better than that, I just want to wrap things up nicely with you.
I know I didn't say the right things, and that I might elicit an even rougher response now, but it was stronger than myself.
