Originally Posted by Ace_32
Thanks LH, probably needed someone to snap me out of my pity party.

That's what I do lol.

Originally Posted by Ace_32
True, i know she has screwed me around more than once and i should just be grateful this happened and walk away.

You have no idea how she saved you some major stress in your middle age by possibly tearing apart your family.

Originally Posted by Ace_32
I don't like giving up and leaving things unresolved, and i would give her another chance if i got the opportunity.

You see this is where if you don't do the work your will continue to go down these paths in the future. You have to get to a place where affairs are deal breakers for you. So she say's she wants another chance and you just say ok? What would be required? Because if nothing was required she would certainly do it again.

Originally Posted by Ace_32
That feeling may change over time but at the moment im still confused and i do love her. I know this is a rollercoaster and emotions change constantly.

What are you confused about?