Well a month has passed since I last posted, although not much has changed with H, I feel better.
We passed the two year BD anniversary with no fanfare. His behavior has been a lot of the same. He’s been aloof, then chatty then he remembers he shouldn’t speak with me or D.
We are now all fully vaccinated, so D and I are having fun out in the world. He seems to be focused on his hobby, staying home to get it ready.
He has traveled since vaccinated for work (really for work) and was recently gone for the week. He actually came in and mumbled he would be gone a week, and the morning he left, he came in and let me know he was leaving and when he’d be back.
I do not know if the OW is relevant to him anymore. She’s posted on social media she’s engaged to him, but it’s funny, she posted a new profile picture and any man that commented how great she looked, those comments have been deleted. So very high school behavior.
My IC mentioned that maybe I should speak to him when I feel he is “chatty and nice” regarding that I still am not planning on divorce, but that is something I do not want to do. With his ups and downs, I feel that would push him even further away. Plus I know that is rule one, no R talk.
Anyway, just thought I’d update for the few of you that still are here.
