Sounds like she is continuing to manipulate you. Nobody likes boundaries. So before you disappeared for awhile you were never going to the apartment and you caved. So I’m concerned you will cave again due to your anxiety. Everyone agrees to keep it amicable in the beginning. Sometimes is does sometimes it doesn’t. Not sure why you slept over I guess you’re a glutton for punishment. She’s going to drag this out as long as she can see she can continue to eat cake.
