SD, sorry things didn't return out, but you can move forward with your head held high that you gave out time and energy. And can move on without regrets.
Thank you and you are 100% correct. I have a clear conscience I did all I could. Which is funny because through all that work to try and save things I ended up coming out the other end not wanting to. If I didn't do that, and was still who I was back in December, I'd likely feel like I lost a good thing because I was just focused on saving the marriage. It wasn't a marriage worth saving.