Some WASs stick to their history revisionism for a long time. That way they can justify their actions. Regardless, it is her narrative, true or false, no reason to dwell on it.
However, sincerely hope you'll get your own lawyer. If she's going down the path of claiming emotional abuse, the D has the potential to get ugly. Protect yourself!!
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018