First off-- so sorry to hear about SS20. Does he have a pulse oximeter? I'd recommend getting one for him, for your peace of mind if nothing else.
Second, just want to say how amazingly well you are doing. I'm so inspired and proud of you. You seem centered and immensely self-aware and ready to embark on this next stage, even though it wasn't what you would have chosen for yourself. I want to hear more about the temporary place you're moving into, and the possible full time job!
xoxo M
Me (46) H (42) M:14 T:18, D9 & D11 4/19 - 12/19: series of escalating BDs 9/20 - present: R and piecing