Quote: What I want to know is are all men really like this or is it just BS that he's giving me?
By "like that", do you mean selfish? Frankly, lots of men, probably the majority are, but that's not a good excuse.
Or do you mean that most men lose interest in sex after orgasm? That varies a lot, I suspect. I lose the great urgency for sex, but hey, it doesn't take much to rekindle interest. Unless I'm really tired and it's late, then I fall asleep right afterward.