I'm a man, and I'm not like that, so what he's saying is obviously BS of the highest order, and highly offensive to boot. I've read your other posts about him, and my opinion of him is not increased by this post. I really do feel you'd be way better off without him.
As for what you should believe, there's a VERY old saying that "Actions speak louder than words", and it's VERY true. "Listen" to his actions, ignore his words. He is a liar and a cheat. He will tell you what he thinks you want to hear, and whatever will get him what he wants. He's a leech.
