There is also contra-indicated advice as well. People like CW a popular dating coach and so forth tell you to get out there, and interact with people. I have been doing that for awhile, men, women, co-workers. I have had plenty of girls shoot thier shot and didn’t go there. Because I knew it was a mistake. So I’m not firing this off the cuff Willy nilly. Hence the reason I even posted about it.
T:11 M:10 K: D5, S7 BD: 9/1/20 WW continues to break up and recon with OM. I paid last fees and pushed the D 5/3/2021 Default Dissolution granted 8/5/21. Glad my D was not busted.