Yeah trust me Mr. B I have absolutely no intention of introducing this girl to my kids. That was stupid advice from Stbxw. Not something I find valid. Also I use OW as the terminology here on the board, it’s not that kind of thing yet. This “OW” is literally a friend I talked to on the phone for a couple months who is a great person and has a high interest. That’s why I meant by “deserves a shot” I know I have a lot of healing to do. And there is zero chance of me dating anyone for a king time seriously. The fact she is not in this town is the reason I even continue on talking to her. I don’t need that turbulence and I got a long ways to go on myself. Before I can be an actual partner to anyone, I know that. I think I may have confused what I meant here but this is not an OW in the sense of OW for the board it’s like just another woman in my life if that makes sense. Believe that I would never go into any kind of R this broken and expect it to work well. That’s a bad idea and I know it. This is a friendship which maybe in a long time could be more. I still will be doing whatever else I need to do and I am not focused on it. But I just wanted to also get to a place elf accepting things before I continue with this friendship in case it ends up being more. That’s what I am trying to express. That and posting it here so I can avoid mistakes going forward.

Last edited by Steve_; 05/18/21 02:39 PM.

T:11
M:10
K: D5, S7
BD: 9/1/20
WW continues to break up and recon with OM.
I paid last fees and pushed the D 5/3/2021
Default Dissolution granted 8/5/21.
Glad my D was not busted.