One afternoon after giving my SO oral sex I put his hand on my breasts, and he pulls his hand away. I tell him that I wanted him to help me get off too. He says no. I get upset and ask him how come. He tells me that after he orgasms he is not interested in sex anymore. He said that all men are like that.

What I want to know is are all men really like this or is it just BS that he's giving me?

Also, what should I really believe about how he feels about me? His actions or his words?

I'm so confused I need a lot of help.