Glad those ducks seem to be lining up!

As for the bachelor - keep your spidey senses alert. I’m always suspicious of those guys that are “moving to your area soon”. First of all - who goes looking for dates before you’ve even arrived and unpacked? Second - often these turn out to be guys who are actually only visiting (vacation or business trip), who are actually married and just looking to line up some fun on the side while they are out of the house. So do your due diligence, keep a sharp eye out for any inconsistencies, do some internet snooping.

I think it would be great if ex-MIl moved nearby, because she could be a lot of help with your daughter. A loving grandma is a good thing.