probably an angry text saying something like "wow you cant even respond about the kids?"
So are you afraid to make her angry?
Originally Posted by Steve_
(Yeah she is 33, pretty set in her way, it'll be man to man to man I'm guessing.)
I thought she was older? This will take longer then I thought. How old are you?
Originally Posted by Steve_
I'm a good man with a good career and a good father, and now she will have to endure the step-family, financial instability, children resenting her and the loss of that organic family that we all had, along with the home in Arizona and her relationship with her own family who now have to move without us and the kids. Really its the loss of a stable and healthy family that really supported her, now they are all angry and resentful toward her.
99% of the LBS here can say the same. I know I can. My ex-father-in-law was furious with my ex. Laid into her and made her cry. Guess how long that lasted? Until she moved into her new house and he took care of everything including the yard and the painting. Why? Because that's his daughter. His flesh and blood.
The quicker you realize and move on the less pain you will have to deal with.
