But when I post here I mention things with her because those are the issues I have that I need help with.... But I suppose I could post all the other things going on for a better picture of steve's day to day
The point I was attempting to make was more "I statements" and less "Her statements".
I believe we are all here attempting to make positive changes to our behavior. Others can see our own flaws much better than we see our own. Making those changes is unnatural. We all have choices to make on how we respond to others when we interact with them. Easiest choice is to do what we are comfortable doing. Getting out of our comfort zone is how we learn and grow.
You already know Sandi's rules. Now you just have to make sure you are following them.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
