Since she has been in Disneyland she has sent me photos of things going on. That's it, no more than that. I responded by thumbs upping the ones with the children.
So what would happen to you Steve if you didn't send the thumbs up? (propbably an angry text saying something like "wow you cant even respond about the kids?"
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I also know that the social media stuff is her way to try to manipulate, which is exactly why she remains blocked.
You are a wise man! (thanks! I know thats all it is)
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I hope someday she will become a better person, healthier and stronger without needing men’s attention to feel good.
I would give that about a .0000001 percent chance of happening. (Yeah she is 33, pretty set in her way, itll be man to man to man Im guessing.)
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Maybe someday she will realize what she threw away.
What did she throw away? Why do you think it is so easy for her to throw it away? (I feel she threw away a solid foundation for the future for herself and our kids. Im a good man with a good career and a good father, and now she will have to endure the step-family, financial instability, children resenting her and the loss of that organic family that we all had, along with the home in arizona and her relationship with her own family who now have to move without us and the kids. Really its the loss of a stable and healthy family that really supported her, now they are all angry and resentful toward her.
Originally Posted by Steve_
But not any time soon. And people usually change when the pain of staying the same forces them to, she has not felt the real pain yet.
What kind of pain do you think she is going to feel? Why do you think she will feel it? Same reasons as I covered for the loss issue. And also because I essentially took care of everything for the kids and took care of her when she got sick and that was often, she wont have that any more and her health isnt going to get better.
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I have nothing much to say to her really. It’s very simple.
It really is that simple to us here. (The less I say to her the easier my life is)
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I see her games for what they are and believe 0% of what she says and even what she does.
You are a wise man! (took a long time but thanks)
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I am more concerned with me right now, I got a IV certification class coming up and I’m thinking of looking for a better paying job soon as well.
Great!
(appreciate it)
T:11 M:10 K: D5, S7 BD: 9/1/20 WW continues to break up and recon with OM. I paid last fees and pushed the D 5/3/2021 Default Dissolution granted 8/5/21. Glad my D was not busted.
