Note my reaction to my XGF taking up 4% of my attention two days in a row. I blocked her texts. I don't want that level of attachment or time commitment unless someone adds value to my life. How about you?
It's amazing how simple right choices can be sometimes. (:
Your XW doesn't spark joy. Marie Kondo would tell you to drop her into a bin! "Thank you for your service, XW, I needed you to help me realize my self-worth, and now your purpose in my life is done for now."
