I thought a lot about all the changes and destruction W has brought into my life and I had a weak moment of thinking how this all could resolve if we R and could be a family again. Then I relaxed and thought, "no Pack, that would be the easy solution, easy is not the best. Short term inconvenience for the desired long term happiness, I can make this work alone!".
Great update Pack, this is the quote that grabbed my attention the most. I'm glad you could relax and think this through logically. I would also add that how would you feel about R with someone who has caused you so much pain and has brought so much destruction?
Me: 41 W:42 T: 14 M: 11 S: 6
"What happened happened, and couldn't have happened any other way...because it didn't"
