Hey CW --- I guess my sarcasm didn't bleed through very well with the universe quote... I was just trying to acknowledge that fate sometimes is just weird.
As far the comment about the number of days between contact... its just an observation rather than a counting. An the idea that this cannot continue forever. Either it needs repaired or it needs to end...
As for the text versus email I'm not sure I understand the difference. Truth be told neither of us email... but is it just due to the phone notification? I get phone notifications for email as well so what would be the difference. Its my choice not to block - what if there was a family emergency?
No worries with the guy I went to the bar with... the last thing I'm looking for is a relationship. I doubt I meet up with him again as I was starting to get the vibe that he is thinking this is something more??? I was kind of relieved when he left the bar early... everyone knows they play the best songs at the end!!!
I will say that I'm very very stiff and sore from eight hours of hauling 200lb of dirt and some 20 12x12 pavers. I was only able to get the project 85% complete and its rained all day so it won't get completed for another weekend. I was telling my male bff about the project and how the pavers had been stacked along the side of the house for 4yrs!!! Better late than never...