I really feel sorry your kids. Your ex trying to blame you then you telling your son you’re going to move. Manipulation from both of you to get a rise out of each other.
Amen.
Originally Posted by Steve_
"The choice was made when you left and filed, I just accepted it, and you can tell the kids whatever you want but, that's on you not me, I gave you 1,000 chances, you wanted to be single, so now you are. No matter what you say we all know and saw what happened, I did my best, you did not want to work with me so I simply decided I have done enough"
Steve, emoting for his ex, because his feelings control him and not vice-versa. Always helped Anakin?
Originally Posted by Steve_
"If you move you will never see the kids again"
Emoting at her, improving you and your kids' situation, it is? (:
Originally Posted by Steve_
I hope this will be a decent process once she is over the anger of me not allowing her to control my life anymore.
It'll be a decent process once you get over your anger, control, etc. No sooner, no later. You can expedite that by seeking counseling, support groups, and journaling here. You can make it worse by continuing the R talks, bringing your kids into it, or dating before you do the work to become stronger, Steve.
It's your circus, Steve. We can watch. Only you can act!
