So It seems like WW is not taking me finishing the D well.
She told my kids that this was "daddy's choice" and told me "you gave up". I did not want to get into a fight over text but I had never stood my ground on that so I just replied "The choice was made when you left and filed, I just accepted it, and you can tell the kids whatever you want but, that's on you not me, I gave you 1,000 chances, you wanted to be single, so now you are." I also told her "No matter what you say we all know and saw what happened, I did my best, you did not want to work with me so I simply decided I have done enough" she went on to threaten, because I mentioned to my son I'd like to move somewhere else, find a better job etc, she told me "If you move you will never see the kids again" … more control.. more anger.. I told her well, I have nothing else I wish to say, please only communicate regarding the children otherwise I will block your phone as well.
She did respond 2 days later regarding the kids schedule and I did not answer all day I was out fishing with no reception, she proceeded to tell me "we have 50/50 custody, you cannot block my phone" and emailed and got on my kids tabled and messaged and so on. When I got back to town I just responded, yes I will be there and no I did not block your phone as long as its just regarding the kids I wont. She responded "okay, thank you" and that was it. I hope this will be a decent process once she is over the anger of me not allowing her to control my life anymore.
T:11 M:10 K: D5, S7 BD: 9/1/20 WW continues to break up and recon with OM. I paid last fees and pushed the D 5/3/2021 Default Dissolution granted 8/5/21. Glad my D was not busted.
