Well moved my son home from college yesterday. We know how to rock a road trip for sure.
I've muted STBXH texts so my phone doesn't notify me... however, even though they are muted when I am driving somehow that gets bypassed?
My STBXH moved to a town an hour away from me. This state road that we take to get home hits the edge of his town... we are talking the very edge. We only drive through it for about 8minutes. I deliberately never drive into this town even though I have business there.
The longest STBXH has gone without contacting me over the last 15months is 9 days.
Well yesterday was day 9.
Driving home - about 40min away now two texts from STBXH pop up on my car dash. I immediately hit ignore.
Its Friday. He probably is asking if I have heard from my atty... AND I SO DO NOT WANT TO DEAL.
Got my kid home. Unpacked. Then I showered and went out to the bar with the "guy friend" that we've been walking our dogs with about every 2 to 3 weeks. The place was amazing as always. There was supposed to be live music... but none. Then about an hour later after it was supposed to start a couple shows up very rushed to set up. I know this group and they were not the scheduled group. They were a last minute fill in as the other performer did not show. I was actually more stoked for this one. I've seen the woman perform several other times and she is awesome.
So it was a great night. My "date" bailed at 10pm stating it was past his bedtime... but I stayed another hour. Had an amazing time.
So this morning I got up and read and did some chores. Getting ready to head over to the state park for an event. Decided it was time to read the texts and just deal with it.
Hahaha
STBXH - Are you bringing S19 home today? STBXH - Thought I saw you on (state road) 20min ago.
Yup - that was us...
Funny is that anytime I'm on the road and I see motorcycles I always look to see if its him. He has a very distinct Harley. I didn't really notice very many bikes out. So he must have been in his truck? Which again is pretty unique - color is typical but its on a lift kit so it stands out.
Didn't see him.
Told him it I didn't notice him but that was us as the timing was right when we were on the road. Then said S19 is home and sent a pic of the mountain of laundry in the laundry room laughing.
Even though STBXH lives in this town the odds that we would be driving by the outskirts on noon on a Friday and he would see us are freaky low... AND, he felt the need to ask if it was us...
Sometimes the universe is a cruel mistress!!! Keeping my chin up!
