Originally Posted by HaWho
I’m so sorry to hear this.

My suspicion is that your kids are just not okay with any gf at this time. It’s most likely all too raw for them and her presence alone may be too much for them given all the changes in their lives. This may be what they are trying to communicate.


Again that’s where I have a problem or where the problem is? They have a “problem” with my gf but not with her bf. Look I can promise you my gf has done so much wonderful things with my kids. So why the problem on my side but not hers? I know some of you will come on here and say things like I don’t know what’s going on over there and you are right. If I do know what’s going on over here. My gf running out to get ice cream for them, my gf playing hide and seek with my kids, playing cards with them, board games with them, movie nights, cooking I g there favorite foods all the time, indoor rock climbing, Dave and busters, she even had a couple of pillow fights with my s. Yet they don’t like her or feel comfortable?? Sorry not buying it. Read up on parent alienation because it is in full affect. Honestly, I have a few close friends I talk to about this. And each one has said the exact same thing, and these conversations are completely separate. Everyone says she is using the kids to punish me because I moved on. 2. Hopefully turning the kids against me and especially gf, she will have enough of this and leave. 3 kids will show such hatred for my gf that basically I would have to pick them or her. It’s truly a sick game my ex is playing at the EXPENSE OF MY CHILDREN. At the end of the day my children pay the biggest price.


M:42 XW:41
T:19 M: 15
D:13 S:10
BD: 8/10/18
Moved out: 8/18
Moved in: 9/18/18
Moved out: 4/22/19
D papers signed 11/4/19
D final 3/18/20