I so appreciate everyone's input. I hope those of us who have survived divorce will find peace. I want to encourage men to hang on to the hope that it gets better after the dust settles. Get busy being fit, look your best and be focused on your life and career and women will beat down your door. At that point you can chose to answer or not but rest assured it does get better.
M:53 W:47 M:15 years. S:18 S's: 30 & 28 from previous marriage. BD: 3/14 Divorced January 17.