That's your opinion that you are entitled to have.
Originally Posted by wayfarer
Displaying emotion has no gender.
I agree. They key is to control your emotions.
Originally Posted by wayfarer
Over emotional is a way patriarchal men like to keep people who identify as women in a little box.
I have no idea what you mean in this statement
Originally Posted by wayfarer
No, no silly little girl that baby box of yours tells you how to think not your teeny tiny little girl brain. It's disgusting way to characterize women and an even worse way to mansplain what "feminine" behavior is to "men."
What?
Originally Posted by wayfarer
People who can articulate how they feel and don't just swallow emotions are typically known as healthy individuals, not effeminate losers.
I agree
Originally Posted by wayfarer
Along with that, I know a h3ll of a lot more men who are unsure of themselves than women, but pretend they're not, and tell themselves they're not and it almost always comes out as hypermasculinity or aggression whether that be passive or active.
Right! So the goal is for the man to become sure of themselves which will in turn make their woman feel safe.
Originally Posted by wayfarer
Insecurity is an interesting animal when swayed with testosterone. It has very little to do with women "taking on the masculine" and far more to do with an individual's self worth, and emotional maturity.
Most women don't want to make all the decisions and take the family lead.
Originally Posted by wayfarer
DBX needing to go further down the path of detachment and doing a little more self work to focus less on the emotions of the MR falling apart has nothing to do with some caveman like display of "leadership."
I just randomly chose his thread to post the quote.
Originally Posted by wayfarer
The only valid point that entire paragraph has is NO ONE should change into something they are not in order to please ANYONE.
