My condolences to you and your family on the loss of your parents. It broke my heart to read your posting. I hope that you and your family (brother) are doing better now. Covid has taken a toll on a lot of families in the last year and half. It just makes us more aware of how we must live each day to the fullest and your parents were there for each other to the end. Just know that they are together and looking down on all of you and are there to listen whenever you need to talk.

Irish, your xw's empathy chip is broken and I do not think that she'll ever realize just how precious life is and how quickly we can lose our loved ones.

Again, I am so very sorry on your loss. We are all here for you and your family.

Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to.
The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.