regarding height:
as a 5'9" woman, I really prefer men who are taller. Most guys are so close to my height that I feel awkward wearing heels around them (and some guys just don't like tall women, too intimidating for them).

My ex was around 6'2" ... that was the perfect height for me. I could wear my tallest heels and still feel dainty and feminine next to him rather than like a giantess.

My son is 6'3" and that alone intimidates a lot of guys. Whoever is in my life someday will need to be secure enough not to be intimidated by either my son's height or my own.

M 20+ T25+
S ~15.5 (BD)
BD 4/6/15
D 12/23/16

"Someone I loved once gave me
A box full of darkness.
It took me years to understand,
That this too, was a gift."
~ Mary Oliver