I echo what KML said. There are a ton of older fit men where I live too. The one’s I avoid are the fanatics. I just think anyone who is spending hours in the gym working out without being a professional athlete or someone training for an ultimate goal like a marathon, is someone that is chasing something (like their youth) or running away (often from themselves). For me, balance is key. Do you take care of yourself in a way that indicates you have a genuine love for yourself? Do you have other interests? Most important...does your love for self extend to love for others or are you judgmental? I’m not easily offended either Shotgun but your post definitely came across that way. You’ve been working a ton on your outer self...maybe now is the time to focus on what’s inside. Just my opinion...for what it is worth.