Originally Posted by shotgun
kml, my intention is to speak from my own perspective as a man. Primarily when it comes to dating post divorce. No doubt much of this applies to both men and women. I can't remember how Michele describes it; a teeter totter or something.....Pulling away causes the other person to draw nearer.

Lol. You can tell it’s been awhile. MWD talks about how relationships are like see saws. Usually in the beginning the woman is trying to fix the relationship. When she is finally done and ready to leave then the man wants to fix the relationship. By then it’s too late.

The pull away and draw nearer is the “Pursuit and Distance Dynamic”.

If you haven’t already read “How to be a 3% man” by Corey Wayne