LH19 thank you for your comments. I was hoping there would be others interested in the topic. As far as relationships, I haven't fallen in love. I have met many ladies in six years. Most of them were single. There are those who are in a relationship who are willing to do the absurd. Thankfully I have managed to avoid that trap. I do find that the odds tilt in men's favor as we age. Numerically we have an advantage with older ladies and having one's life in relative order draws attention. Part of my intent here is to encourage men. I cannot speak from the women's perspective but hope that everyone finds peace.

My ex? I have no idea what her life is like. She had a man on the side during the marriage but I don't know if they are still an item. Ultimately she did me a favor by ending the marriage. Something that I would have never done. At this point I am kind of living like a teenager. At least doing the things I should have been as a young man when it comes to dating. Meeting women. Going on dates. Keeping an open mind and keeping my expectations low.


M:53 W:47 M:15 years. S:18 S's: 30 & 28 from previous marriage. BD: 3/14 Divorced January 17.