Originally Posted by kml

I know this sounds far fetched, but did her father confirm this story about her brother? Or could she possibly have made parts of it up?


I saw the hole in the door at my house that time. The other time when he went after her is when i was sitting in the car waiting for her to come out with the kids. Evidently literally in just few minutes they got into an argument and he exploded and went after her she came running out with the kids, father was holding him back at the door. I went to get out to make sure she was alright and she said let’s go don’t even bother with him, so we left.

I am really stuck. I have been doing a lot of soul searching and thinking. Is there his worth the battle? Taking my ex to court to fight for custody? My d is so brainwashed she wants nothing to do with me. I am about to have another baby (2 weeks) and the amount this is going to cost me? I don’t want my d growing up in That environment because it’s not healthy for her or my s. I am also afraid if I did win what would life look like with a teen who only wants to be with her mom and hates us and having a new born? Do I let my d go and wait for the day she realizes I am not what her mom made me out to be or do I fight and possibly win and have a d who is so depressed and defiant. Honestly everyone, just being honest I am emotionally exhausted. I recognize I have made many mistakes and rushed some things. I wish I could go back in time and fix this all, but I can’t. I just want the best for my kids, whatever that mean. Just looking for peoples points of view. Sometimes when you are in the thick of it you don’t see everything.

Originally Posted by Ready2Change

DO NOT AGREE TO ANY CHANGE OF LOCATION FOR THE EXCHANGE.

This is the BEST PLACE for it to happen for you. She will hate it. You should love it.
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I understand this will protect me. But is it really good for my s to be going through this? I feel horrible for my s to have to go through this.

I will get those books everyone recommended


M:42 XW:41
T:19 M: 15
D:13 S:10
BD: 8/10/18
Moved out: 8/18
Moved in: 9/18/18
Moved out: 4/22/19
D papers signed 11/4/19
D final 3/18/20