WW: "I'm not going to let you make me feel guilty"

[OnlyBent]

Hey DRH, I've been meaning to write this for a while but just haven't had the time.

Reading your sitch, especially this latest thread, I can identify with pretty much 99% of what you've said has happened, its all very, very familiar. I find a lot of comfort in knowing that someone is going through what I am, it makes it easier to accept that this can't be all my fault (as I am being told). I too have struggled with wanting to know why, but have come to accept that I will never know. Even more helpful is when I try and envision getting the why, and seeing that it doesn't really solve anything anyway. My family has still been broken up, my trust has still been broken and I still feel very betrayed. Knowing why won't make that all better.

Keep posting, this room has slowed down of late, would be a shame to lose everyone here.