I’m not sure what I just read, but I think you have officially gone of the deep end.
I guess you can file it under "sh*t you can't make up"...
I'm not forgiving my H's abuse. But I see he has taken steps in dealing with his anger. I love my step kids who I have remained in contact with. I've seen my H take some BIG steps in trying to repair his relationship with D19... she is still not ready to have anything to do with him.
Sadly OW's career choice... she has gone from massage therapist to doing weird and gross online sh*t to make $$ and STBXH is okay with it.
I'm not in competition with OW and frankly I never was. I'm only in competition with myself --- focusing on the things I can control and being the best version of myself.
