Thank you DnJ and AndrewP.

I did say specific ways they could support me while also saying specifically what wouldn’t help me. Yet still this is where they are.

All I can do as you’ve said is stick to my boundaries and just keep putting one foot in front of the other.

El

Me 52, H 56
T10 M7, 2nd MR for both
2 Step Sons (19 and 21)
BD: Fall 2020
D finalized: July 2022
XH Married AP soon after D day.