Originally Posted by kml
Couple of questions:
1) Has your ex ever had a problem with drugs or alcohol? Is there mental illness in her family?

2) What is up with her boyfriend? Is he just some gullible dude who believes her pack of lies, or is he whack also???


1. No drugs or alcohol. But there is some mental illness in the family. Her brother and aunt. He is 38 lives at home, no job, friends or girlfriend. Just live off mommy and daddy. He took accutane (prescription acne medicine) at 18 which my ex claims made him loose it. I did t know him before that so I can’t compare. He has severe anger and depression issues. One time I wasn’t home and he got into an argument with my ex and punched a whole in the bathroom door. Another time he physically went after her and her dad held him back. Always happened when I wasn’t around. Of course, he wouldn’t dare do that in front of me.
2. Honestly I know nothing about this guy. I had a friend run his plates because didn’t even know his last name. He is d with 2 kids. It’s funny his ex has a Facebook page and it mentions that she is a transformation coach helping women after narcissistic abuse. I don’t know if that refers to him. But man if it does, I really need to get my kids out of there.
I was with my ex for 19 years she is very good at sounding convincing. I remember this one time we went on a cruise with 3 other couples. The one mom was “copying” my ex and she didn’t like it. Example: ordering the same drink a few times. So she convinced the other 2 families she was crazy and a loser and the other 2 families stopped talking to this family on the cruise. That is how convincing she is. I apologize for what I am about to say, it’s very judgmental. He looks like a guy who really doesn’t have a lot. Maybe looking to cash in on ex. She has a big home that we fixed up right before divorce, she always makes it seems like she has a million dollars, she gets child support from me, and her parents are loaded. Honestly I would have thought she would have gone after a man solely for money. But she went in the complete opposite direction. The other thing is, he has 2 kids and is always at her house. I am 99% sure he doesn’t bring his kids there. Again I know a little judgmental, I am just giving you what I see. I could be completely wrong.


M:42 XW:41
T:19 M: 15
D:13 S:10
BD: 8/10/18
Moved out: 8/18
Moved in: 9/18/18
Moved out: 4/22/19
D papers signed 11/4/19
D final 3/18/20