It was MLC. Now I am calling moving forward.

[Wolfman]

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I get what you are saying about it is hard to take focus off the ex when she keeps sabotaging (your words, not mine), but that is precisely why it is necessary that you do so. You keep reiterating that you have proof and hard facts of her sabotage and I just don't get why you aren't presenting that proof and "hard facts" to your lawyer and let them sort it out.

I had all the hard facts for my first lawyer. But like I said, he dropped the ball. That’s why I have a new lawyer and I have a meeting with him on Monday to go over everything.

I'd be REALLY curious to know what ex is actually accusing you of??? Pretty sure CPS will come and scratch their heads.

That I was harassing her when I showed up I front of her house to pick up my d. I was following my divorce agreement which I have been doing all year. That I was harassing my d with texts. My text were I miss you and love you texts. But accusing me that that’s harassing. Harassing her with emails. My emails are questions about the kids, strictly about the kids. All completely outlandish that I can disprove.

Dejavu I really CPS coming to my house will help. To see everything and I showed her a lot of the facts. Text messages, emails and photos of me with the kids. Many many photos!!!

Wolf, fingers crossed this day's been a calmer one for you.

It was until the exchange again at the police station. This time the cop from the night before was standing in the road before I got there. Said don’t even go near her they are on a war path. Ex and bf. He said for me to just give him my s and he will walk him over to the car. Afterwards that’s when he told us , she called the chief on them, bf went in and had words with them. I am seriously concerned for my children’s well being. I just feel completely horrible!!

R2C thanks for the advice I will try that approach. Let me tell you I know I have made plenty of mistakes but this forum has really helped me. The way I approach situations and how to speak and validate. That’s why I love it here, the support and the education.

What a disaster this turned into. I just want to take all this pain away from my kids. I certainly never wanted this. And this was one of my biggest concerns, how this would be for my kids. The cop also said record everything whenever she is around. So last night when we parked and the cop was coming over to get my s, I took my phone out to record. My s said don’t record. I told him, I understand this is hard, but the cop said daddy should. He said don’t record mom, she is perfect. Ugh. If he only truly understood that she tried to have me arrested in front of him for simply sitting in the car. My gr said isn’t daddy perfect too? And he said yeah. Then the cop came and walked him over.