Thank you everyone for the tips and your input. It really helps me get through this tough time. It’s really terrible what me ex is doing to my children. So first drop off was a night mare. She pulled up just as we pulled up. So we parked behind her like we always do. S gets out of my car and get into hers. This will be a little hard to explain through text but I will try. There is a small little drive way into the parking lot. Use thang driveway to go in to it and out. So, she pulled ahead pulled into a spot to turn around. We were going to wait for her to leave for us to pull up into a parking spot to turn after her. There are only 5 spots. She pulls into the spot and then just stops. So her car is facing me so it looks like this
“T” not that close of course there is 30 feet of grass between us. We are the top part of the T and she is the bottom. So she is sitting in her car after about a minute, she gets out rips my son out of the back seat and walks into the police station. So way back my lawyer said to always have my gf with me as a witness. So she asks me, what is she doing. I said probably going to complain that we are sitting here waiting for her to go. So, my gf goes in to see what is going on and sure enough she is telling the cop that we are harassing her by sitting in the car that I am violating the order of protection. The cop says how is he violating, he is sitting in the car. She replied he should leave first and him sitting there is harassing her. The cop said why does he have to leave first, you can leave first. Then she tells him well they are going to follow us. My gf simply said officer we live in the same area. Well this went on for about 5 more minutes trying to tell the cop I am inviolation and they need to do something. The cops said aren’t you the one who wanted to do drop offs here. She said yeah so it would be less stressful for her and my s. The officer replied, I want to be honest, doing drop offs at the police station is more stressful for the kids than at a home. So she stormed out with my s. The cop told us last night that, she called the police station and spoke to the chief that the cops were disrespectful are mean to her. She actually complained to the chief about how they spoke to her. Look everyone I just truly want to say, something has snapped inside of this woman, I don’t know what but something is seriously wrong. The thing is, I am so concerned for my s having to witness that. She tried to get me arrested in front of my s for simply waiting for her to leave. Last night she brought her bf and he went in to complain about how they treated her. My gf recorded everything.

The CPS visit went well. I know I am a good father. I explained why she filed the order of protection. That she is just trying to get at me because I moved on. I showed her the text messages between my d and I were all I am saying is I miss her and love her. She said that’s what she is stating as harassment? I said yes. As far as the ex saying I harassed her. I showed her the emails about me communicating with her about my kids. And how she doesn’t respond to most of my emails. I said once again her is my evidence against her lies. She then asked there is an email service that you can use that the courts recommend. I said that is how I communicate with her, that’s how I email her. She said ok. I showed her pictures with my kids all the activities we have done and how my d is always a smiling. All the things my gf has done with my s. Videos of my d dancing in my home. There is a lot more but not to make this too long, I will leave it at that. The woman says your kids always look happy, and she said you do a lot of things with them. I said absolutely. I also called the hotel and dance comp because she stated that she had to be escorted out by security. When that happens there are records of that. Well both places said no security was ever called. As far as you “disguise” I wore a baseball hat and I showed her which one and told her she recorded me so she can see that’s all I had besides the mask. The woman said this is very helpful. I told her I am so sorry that she is wasting her time. But I feel that this will only help me when I re-file against her.
Question did any of you able to ever get your ex psychologically evaluated, if so, how? She is completely gone. There is a lot her. I cut pieces out and shorted it but I gave you all the most import parts. I am trying so hard to keep it together. I am petrified she is going to make up another lie just to get me arrested.


M:42 XW:41
T:19 M: 15
D:13 S:10
BD: 8/10/18
Moved out: 8/18
Moved in: 9/18/18
Moved out: 4/22/19
D papers signed 11/4/19
D final 3/18/20