Three months after meeting OM on a dating website, she created a "vision board" or what I call a "delusion board" that she hung on her bedroom wall. Anyone could see it and my kids went in her room all the time. I can only imagine what they thought.
There was a grainy photo of her and OM with a caption "we will be happy forever," a photo of just our kids with captions like "I'm not a bad mom," "my kids don't need a perfect mom" (when they learned she was seeing someone else while living with us) and "I am all that my kids need."
There were other captions plastered on the delusion board such as "I exhale fear and I breathe in confidence" - and the best of all, an outline of a house with the following caption: "New home, room for 7 (OM has three kids), great school, great neighborhoods."
Dude your EXW is a kook. Do yourself a favor and run as fast as you can in the opposite direction.
