It was MLC. Now I am calling moving forward.

[Wolfman]

Thank you everyone. On Friday I went to pick up my d from her moms home. When I pulled up the bf and her uncle were there again, I guess to “protect” her. Anyway, I text this to my d on Friday: I’m disappointed because I miss you. I hope you change your mind and you know you can always text me if you do. No pressure...I would just like to work on having a good relationship with you regardless. Love you babydoll. No response. I also emailed the mom that I am supposed to have the kids for the weekend and asked her what she thought. No response. In a separate email asked her to have my d respond to my text. No response. This is co-parenting? Her mom is telling her also to respond to me. I am only trying to text. I just ask her about her day and say I love her and miss her at the end. I am very careful what I put in writing. This is so hard and hurtful. I only feel comfortable her saying this. I spoke with my d therapist this weekend too. She told me something that I was shocked. She said my d told her that she is now very angry with her mom for the divorce and said to her mom why couldn’t she have just worked things out with me. My poor d is so confused. Right now I just want her to know I love her so much and miss her!!! The therapist said to me that my d is definitely “parroting” what her mother says about me. With the therapist saying that I guess things must not be good over there either. I know will disagree with this because it is speculation, but this is just how I feel. My d is an emotional prisoner over there. My d had a dance competition this Friday. I kinda went incognito this way I could watch. I have never missed anything for my kids. If I had to leave work or early or miss I did for them. I wasn’t about to miss this. Of course my ex and d never told me there was one. Thank god I got a last minute email from the studio about the comp. Anyway I sat in the back by myself and watched, I was so proud of her!!! After her last dance I got up to walk out as I was leaving my ex saw me. I was walking down the hotel hallway and at the end of the hallway there is this big mirror. Well in the mirror I see her standing in the hallway recording me as I walk away. Either way I know my ex will put a negative spin on it. If I didn’t go, daddy doesn’t care and even come see you dance. Being there I am bothering her, even though I just kept to myself. Ugh.

The new lawyer I reached out to hasn’t got back to me. I am going to have to try some other lawyers. See what happens. Looking forward to everyone’s response.