ToSmile, the beauty of how this works is that you get decide for yourself! I can continue to talk about the importance of IC, and you can continue to ignore it and decide that IC isn't for you. Happens a lot on this forum.
But you keep talking about how this particular IC wasn't helping you as if a) you cannot change to a different IC, and/or b) all ICs are the same. What I am trying to get you to see is that all ICs are not the same, there are good ones and bad ones, and if the one you currently have isn't working for you then move to a new one.
But it is entirely up to you! wayfarer and I are simply trying to help, but we are just strangers on the internet.
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