Having my heart broke after dating someone 2 1/2mo over a misunderstanding which I still can't make up for 2 months later?
KK I was just dating a girl for 4 months who decided to go back to an ex boyfriend who reach out and I was fine the next day. Did it suck? Yep But why do you think I bounced back immediately? Because I did the work.
I've been on a date with a guy and never heard from him again and it didn't bother me in the least... I've had 2nd and 3rd dates and it just doesn't work up... not bothered. I've currently got a guy texting only every 2 weeks to meet up... whatever. I've had guys chase me down for dates only to then be like whatever... and I'm totally fine with whatever. Had a date yesterday and wasn't feeling it... so I cancelled the night before. Doesn't bother me.
All I can say is this one guy got under my skin.
It happens.
I will get through it. Its just gonna bite for the short term.
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Originally Posted by KitCat
I sent 3 texts about my youngest brother who is far far far from home. And then I sent 3 memes all of which I thought were funny and my STBXH would find them funny. IDK why I did this... I really don't... I mean sure go all out on my mental state and say I'm still trying to get his attention.
Just be friends with him. There is nothing wrong with it.
I don't think that's what I want. I miss his friendship. But, I don't think I just want to be friends. Mostly because while he thinks we are... we really aren't. He can't be honest about anything - lies about living alone, lies about going on vaca alone... that's not somebody being your friend.
