Gerda,

A great posting and every new poster should read it. Wise words that have been stated over and over again by all of us. Unfortunately, no matter how many times we state them, each and every poster has to go through some of trauma in order to get to the other side and protect themselves. At first, new posters may think we are holding grudges and want to get even, however, as they travel the path, they will eventually understand more and more of why we advise them to do certain things.

Each person's path is different, they timeline is different, but at the end of their respective days, they will eventually see more clearly and have a better understanding of the advice that we give here.


Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to.
The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.