Kind18, you are so right. When I look back at the timeline from 2 years ago to now, there ultimately has been an upward slope.
From time to time, I do get overwhelmed. I go from, "why didn't I just file when he was out of the country and have him come ome to the change he stated he wanted?" to " He is speaking to me more, sometimes unprompted, and I seem to have had more shared by him than before."
Cardinal, I miss chatting with you! I will look for that app. I have been reading a lot of fiction that takes place in far away places and, as we are coming out of the lockdowns travel can be on the horizon. I have decided to research places I want to visit, pricing, airlines, hotels and excursions based on places depicted in the books I read. I may never get to all of them, but to write all of these down calms me. Plus something to look forward to!
DNJ your wisdom is always one I look forward to hearing. I need to remember that this is H and his journey. Right now his journey is a diet. LOL, I did remark to my IC that I have definitely seen behaviors that have not been seen for two years. He is more "available" to the pets, has chatted a bit more and he is reversing to previous patterns. We will see how it goes.
I really appreciate every ones viewpoints. I notice not a lot are posting anymore, and it is comforting to have you all here.