Scout, any idea what's triggering this behavior--e.g., insisting on front-door inside of curbside pickups when you two previously negotiated curbside pickups? It sounds mighty frustrating, especially keeping S3 an extra 45 minutes without your agreement. Maybe take deep breaths and consider what matters and what doesn't. Let go of the bits that don't matter. It sounded like the new schedule was overall a win for you.